Feeding FAQ: 9-12 months

My baby is 10 1/2 months old and still wakes up at 10.30pm/11.00pm for a feed and we can't get past that. Plus he also wakes at approx 2.00am but my husband cuddles him back to sleep for that one and he then sleeps till 5.00 when he wakes for a feed.
How can I stop him waking up for the 10.30/11.00 feed?

He is fully breast fed and takes both sides at each feeds. The feeds are about 15-20 minutes in length at 5.30am, 2.30pm, 6.30pm and 10.30pm. He takes 1 weetabix with cow’s milk, a rich tea biscuit and 1oz of milk from a cup at 8.30am. Lunch is a 190gr jar of food or homemade followed by chopped fruit or raisins. He takes water from a cup. At 5pm he takes a 190gr jar of food, ½ yoghurt and some finger food.

My son naps at 9-10am and 12-2pm.
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My son has never really slept through the night. He is still waking once or twice a night, being breastfed once, some time between 3.30am and 6am.

About a month ago we gave up trying to get him to sleep through from a feed at 11pm, as 2 night feeds is obviously excessive at his age!! We decided that the earlier feed would be easier to drop, but he had begun to wake at this time due to habit. We have now dropped this feed, by giving him water and a cuddle, but he was taking a long time to settle.
I am now (for the past 4 days) leaving him to settle himself (checking after 20-30mins) if he wakes before 3am (it's usually around 12-1am), as I know he definitely isn't hungry then. He settles after 20-40 mins crying and grizzling and usually sleeps until after 5am, when I give him his morning milk early.

An added problem is that he sometimes wakes between 3.30 and 5am, particularly if he hasn't woken earlier in the night. At this time I have been feeding him (he feeds from both sides and settles until about 6.30) but surely he shouldn't be hungry this early at his age? Is he just having me on?

I'm also concerned about giving him mixed messages, as I'm leaving him at the earlier waking (if there is one) but feeding him at the next. How can I eliminate hunger as a cause of waking later as it gets towards morning when I can't give him a diluted feed? If I'm absolutely sure that he isn't hungry, I can do controlled crying properly and finally sort out his sleeping.

I'm a little confused about what he should have for tea, as a couple of health visitors have told me that he should eat protein at teatime as well as at lunchtime, whereas Gina says that a carbohydrate tea is best. Currently, I'm giving him vegetable protein such as lentils or baked beans at least every other day and making sure that there is plenty of potato or sweet potato in any recipes I use.

He sleeps in a grobag, tucked in with a light sheet. At naptimes, he settles himself to sleep in his cot, except for once a week, when he begins his lunchtime sleep in the car (I transfer him to the cot at home). At his bedtime, he usually goes into a very deep sleep after his breastfeed. I try to rouse him when I put him in his cot, usually with little success. On the odd occasion that he goes into his cot awake, he is able settle himself quickly, with only a brief protest (about a minute), when I leave the room.

At present my son weighs 20lbs. He feeds from both sides if he wakes before 5.30am. If after this time I give him one side and only 5 minutes on the second as he won’t eat enough breakfast. If he feeds before 5am I give him another 5mins at 7am. He takes 2/3rds of a Weetabix or the equivalent amount of Ready-break with some fruit and a fromage frais if still hungry. I offer the breast but usually only takes 5mins, if any at all. He is offered water and a rice cake around 10am, depending how much breakfast he has eaten. Lunch: he eats about 6 cubes [equivalent to over a tablespoon each-25mls] chicken, lamb or beef recipes from Gina, Annabel Karmel or Planet Organix. Finger food given as well. Offered water in the afternoon. Tea: 4-5 cubes [as above] of a vegetarian savoury such as corn chowder, red lentil savoury, baked beans. I offer him baby rice and fruit or a fromage frais if he still seems hungry. 6.40pm breast feed, both sides but gets very sleepy whilst feeding.

He naps at 9.20-9.45am and 12.45-2.45pm. He settles around 7.15pm.
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My little boy currently drinks 210 mls milk at 7:00, 180 mls at 2:30 and 240 mls at 18:30. His weight gain has been okay (although only on 30th percentile) and it dropped over the last few weeks as he was ill with a nasty rotavirus which knocked him back off the weaning process considerably (refused to eat anything for a week!). He is now completely better and making up for it by eating and drinking large amounts which is great. I am conscious that he should be using a beaker for his milk feeds however when we try he rejects it when he tastes the milk. He is happy to take water in the beaker (Avent Magic cup) however not milk. I have tasted it myself and it does taste odd through the plastic. I am not sure whether he is ready to reduce his milk consumption, with him catching up after his illness. Please could you suggest what he should be drinking at this stage and how we get him onto the beaker for his milk?
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My daughter is 10 months old and has very little interest in drinking fluids. However I have tried everything to increase her intake, but can't get her to drink more than 10-11 oz a day. I have tried different teats, bottles and cups but nothing makes a difference. I offer her water from a beaker but she doesn't have as much as half an ounce a day. She eats well and enjoys her solids. She was weaned at five and a half months and is now on the 9-12 month feeding plan. Her meals are all home cooked and recipes are from either Gina's weaning book or Annabel Karmel's. The amount of solids she eats are consistent with the recipe advice.

My daughter rarely has any interest in breakfast and will only take a couple of mouthfulls of weetabix or porridge (though she'll happily eat a Organix fruit puree - is she just being fussy?). It makes no difference whether I offer her milk before or after her tiny breakfast, in fact I'll offer her milk pretty much on and off throughout the day (before and after breakfast, before and after her mid morning nap and after her lunchtime nap). However she'll only take a max of 3 oz over the day. She has her protein meal at lunchtime at noon followed by yoghurt or fruit puree (she tends to suffer from constipation, so I tend to give her at least one Organix fruit puree a day). She has her tea at 5, something like lentil soup or corn chowder followed by a yoghurt or fruit puree. At 6.45pm she starts her bedtime milk but I will have to keep going back into her nursery and offering her a little more. Most of the time she will drink the remaining milk when she's asleep anytime from 7.00- 7.30pm. Doing it like this, she will always have 7oz. I've tried giving her a top up at 10 or 11pm but she doesn't usually want it and I'm always conscious that it may put her off her breakfast - but in fact it makes no difference either way. She is gaining weight regularly but it worries me that her fluid intake is so low. Sometimes she'll only have 1 oz of fluid all day until her 7 oz bedtime drink. My daughter is probably making up the difference with her 1 yoghurt and milk in her food but her resistance to drinking does make her prone to constipation. When she drinks from a bottle with a teat she will have a couple of sucks and then pull away . I have to repeat the process constantly, often putting her down and trying again a few minutes later. I've been to the doctors about it but he doesn't seem concerned. Can you please give me any advice that might help. Her drinking has become rather a preoccupation and I don't want it to get any worse. She does have approx 3-4 wet nappies a day, though they are very, very light except first thing in the morning.
7.30am 1oz formula, 7pm 7ozs formula. 10pm 3ozs formula[ not always taken]. She weighs 20lbs 6ozs.

My daughter naps at 9.30- 10.15am and 12.45-2.30pm
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We want to know whether it is appropriate and safe to now give our nearly year old son ordinary un-boiled water in his drinks. He is now using beaker cups and bottles which are well washed without strict sterilization. Our tap drinking water is filtered with a Brita filter.
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I am wondering about changing our son's tea time since he has begun refusing bedtime milk.

He is now almost 10 months old and is on target for trebling his weight by 1 yr [he is presently 24lbs 10ozs]. He has followed the routines well (other than the lunchtime sleep which we seem to have resolved with a catnap later in afternoon if this goes wrong).

Then, at 9 months he got a cold, cut 6 teeth all at once and had a sore- but not infected ear. Everything went wrong: we had disturbed nights and days, he was fussy with solids and milk intake and he was lethargic.

Slowly as his sleep and his solids intake came back to normal, he began refusing his bedtime milk.

I tried all the recommendations to encourage bedtime milk to no avail. I then found that he would take a drink of 2.5-3.5oz milk with his tea. Together with cheese, yoghurt etc he reaches his milk quota for the day.

However now that 6.30-7.00pm no longer involves the wind down of drinking milk I wondered if I should try pushing tea closer to 5.30pm resulting in less of a gap before bedtime after bathing and dressing for bed. Should I offer him water or a drink of baby fennel tea before bed?
At present he takes 6-8.5ozs of milk divided between cup and cereal at breakfast. He will eat fresh fruit with porridge, baby muesli, or weetabix and a small piece of toast. Lunch is protein based: i.e. chicken casserole or fish, potatoes and veg. He takes 3ozs of juice with this. 2.30pm 4ozs or a fromage frais if milk is refused. Tea is thick soup with mini sandwiches. I add cheese or fromage frais if his milk intake for the day is not high. 2.5-3.5ozs milk with tea.

He naps at 9-9.30am, 12-1.40pm and 3.45-4-15pm. He is settled at 7pm.
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I need your advice on a subject that I am really confused about.
I am sure most of the mothers have this dilemma that I have.
With my 9.5 month old twins, feeding is usually a battle.

I have followed Gina's weaning guide to the letter, and it has been quite a success until the second stage.

Breakfast at 7.30am: I mix Weetabix or Readybrek with 75mlsformula and different types of fruits such as pears and apples which are pureed, or peaches, bananas and kiwis which I slice into pieces. As the girls have 2 bottom teeth and two lateral incisors so I presume they cannot chew much yet. After a short break I offer them 150mls formula. They usually drink around 120mls.

Lunch time at 11.30am: 50gr protein mixed with different type of vegetables, cheese, tomato sauce + 1 fruit pot of ready made fruit puree.

I prepare lunch by using a Baby Cook to steam and then puree their food. I will steam 50gr of meat/chicken/fish/recently liver and 100-150gr vegetable, then add herbs, tomato sauce and grated cheese and puree until smooth. This makes around 6-8 tablespoons.

3.30pm I offer 150mls formula, 120mls is usually taken, but they have started to lose interest in this if they finish their lunch.

Tea is at 5.15pm. I alternate home made lentil/vegetable soup [Gina’s recipe] and organic commercial baby food of different flavours.

With a lot of distraction like finger foods, toys, spoons, funny faces, sounds, cartoon on TV (unfortunately), and at the end of a 45 minute battle, they finish their plate but I am very worried that if I continue like that they will hate eating food as they grow up.

A lot of my friends tell me not to push them and if they refuse to eat, leave them until they are really hungry, ok, maybe it makes sense but if I do that then the routine will be disturbed so as their sleeping pattern.

SO....I can't decide which one is worse...

Pushing them to finish their meal (they finish it eventually) and they will see feeding times as a battle and hate it.

OR

I will not push them and wait until they scream for food and the feeding / sleeping times will be all mixed up...
There must be solution in between, I desperately need your advice.

Following the advice I got from the message boards I have stated to limit the meal times to 30minutes and not use the TV or toys as distractions. Sometimes they eat, sometimes they don’t. I find that they eat the ready made meals more easily, even though they are for over 10mths but as they are only 20-30% of their meal plan I don’t understand why they like it more.

I am trying to prepare more lumpy foods [we are very far away from giving chopped or diced] but it is very difficult to feed them that.

I have been offering them water from a beaker for the last three months after their meal but they will just push it away. Recently they have started to play more with the spout [Avent soft spout, no valve] and will scratch at it with their teeth and put it into their mouth. As yet I have not tried with milk in a beaker. I am also working on giving water in a beaker with no lid on.

The twins were born 10 weeks early at 1.2kg and 1.3kgs. Their full maximum feed is 180mls but by 8mths they weighed 8kg and were still gaining 200-250gr each week. I don’t expect them to eat or drink the same amount as other babies but they are still constantly gaining weight.
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Oliver, 11mths and weighing 24lbs never seems to be full. He is waking in the night starving, demanding a full milk feed before he will settle again.

At night he sleeps in a room blackened with blinds and curtains. He wears a sleeping bag. He is in a good routine by day, settling himself for each nap and going down with a couple of minutes protest at 7pm.
At night I am trying to use controlled crying, waiting 40 minutes before going in. Both my husband and I are sleep deprived which affects our work and his crying is beginning to disturb my other children.

At night he wakes between midnight and 4am and once he has fed, settles well again until 6-6.30am when he is absolutely starving again. I know it is hunger waking him, as he is desperate for food in the morning and not going off his meals at all, despite feeding in the night. This has been going on for about a month.

I cook all his meals, following the recipes exactly in the weaning book. I have read in one of the books about a carbohydrate/protein imbalance but as I follow your recipes exactly, this surely isn’t his problem. He was weaned at 5mths. I breast fed until 6 months and then gave him soya formula as he is lactose intolerant.

He needs as many as 6 mini rusks/ rice cakes before or during his meal as well as eating a savoury and yoghurt.

At 6.30am he takes 6oz soya milk in a cup followed by breakfast at 7.30 which is 1 weetabix with one mashed banana, soya yoghurt, rusk/rice cake with soya butter. He drinks water form a cup.

To get him to lunch Oliver has 2-3 rice cakes/ rusks and 1-2 ozs water. At 12 noon he has a 9-12 month meat recipe. If it states 4-6 portions, I divide it into 4 portions and he always finishes one. Then he has a banana and raisins.

Oliver sleeps well at lunchtime but wakes ravenous for his milk at 2.30pm. He takes 6oz soya from a cup. He starts screaming from hunger by 4pm when I give him rusks and rice cakes to get him to a 5pm tea.
Tea will be a 9-12 month vegetarian recipe, again Oliver eats one full portion. He has 2 slices of bread with soya butter and the crusts removed. This is followed by a yoghurt. He has water to drink at tea, followed by an 8oz soya bottle before bed.

When he wakes in the night he takes a 8oz soya bottle. He will take this in about 6mins, and takes even less time to drink from a cup. When he has finished he protests loudly.

Apart from this hunger he is a happy, contented boy.
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I feel I'm in a real mess at the moment. Callum is eleven months and for the last few days has refused most of meals only taking 3-4 teaspoons of food and refusing all milk feeds. He has a runny nappy and it is bright yellow, sometimes it is very watery. During the days he is well in himself: happy, running about, no temperature and taking his normal daytime sleeps, but come to mealtimes he just changes and becomes fussy, crying and wingeing etc.

My dilemma is that he waking 2.30am-3.00am, very upset and will not resettle without feeding where he takes 7-9 oz very well and goes straight back to sleep and wakes at 7.00am.

I have taken to adding at vitamin syrup to his water and he does seem to be thirsty more than usual. I make a point of not giving any fluids after tea (5.00pm) to encourage his bedtime milk but this has failed of late.

To give you idea of what he had eaten over the last 2 days:

Tuesday
No milk drink
1tsp of weetabix
No snack
3 tsp of lamb casserole
No snack
3tsp veg lasagne
1 oz of bedtime milk
3.00am - 7 oz milk

Wednesday
No milk drink
3 tsp of peachy porridge
No snack
3 tsp of cottage pie
No snack
2 tsp of veg lasagne then tried baked beans and sausage (2 tsp) then tried rice pudding (refused)
2 oz bedtime milk

Can you shed any light on the possible causes of his loss of appetite.
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My 11.5 month daughter has always enjoyed a wide range of home cooked food, finger food and the occasional jar of dessert. For the past two weeks she has started to refuse almost all food, both cooked and finger food. I find it to hard to let her eat nothing so end up giving her the things I know she will take. She is breastfeeding as normal.

The only food she seems to eat is cheese, fruit and some puddings such as jelly and yogurt. I have tried letting her feed herself but she is not interested unless it is jelly or something she loves. I have tried introducing new foods such as cheese on toast and eggy bread but she refuses these. She seems happy and content otherwise and is sleeping as usual. She is definitely hungry and asking to be fed before it is time but we try to wait until her mealtime. Even if she has not eaten for several hours and is asking for food, she still refuses the food that we put in front of her. I am finding this very stressful as I had feeding issues with her 2.5yr old brother, but he now eats well if a somewhat limited diet.

At first I thought it may be due to teething but now feel it must be something more.

Her breast feeding pattern has remained unchanged. The length of feed seems to depend on how much she has eaten at the meal preceding it.

Feeding details

7.30am: a few cheerios, 1-2 mouthfuls of toast, 1 strawberry, 5 grapes, and 3 tsps yoghurt
9.30am: breast feeds from one side 10-15minutes
12.00: 1-2 strawberries, 5 grapes, 1 packet Dairylea cheese strips or grated cheddar, jelly or yoghurt, 1-2ozs water towards end of meal
1.00pm: breast feeds from one side 5-10minutes
5.00pm: 1-2 strawberries, 5 grapes, 1 packet Dairylea cheese strips or grated cheese, 1 yoghurt or similar pudding 1-2ozs water towards end of meal
7.00pm: Breast feeds from both breasts for 10-15minutes
3.30am: Breast feeds from one breast 5-10minutes

Daily milk intake:4 breastfeeds over 24 hours

My daughter naps at 9.30-10am, 1-3pm and is settled by 7.15pm
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I have been following the Contented Baby routines with my daughter Eva since she was 6 weeks old. She is now eleven months. At the end of December 2004 Evie became ill. She stopped eating solids completely for two weeks, was put on antibiotics and suffered from teething and colds until recently. During this time she has become extremely clingy and whingey - enough so that Dad now wants her to go to nursery!! I believe she is suffering greatly from separation anxiety - she screams and cries when I refuse to pick her up (even if I am right there making food, sitting on a chair or on the ground next to her). I have been trying to go through ‘controlled crying’ during the day - pick her up only for very good reasons, then praise her for playing on her own, etc. I am trying to walk slowly so she can crawl after me instead of insisting on being picked up all the time. I tend to get down to her level so she can come to me for comfort, instead of running over and picking her up. This is a very slow process - some days okay, some days terrible, crying non-stop.

She has just started accepting food again in the last two days - she drank enough milk to get her through the night in the past six weeks though. She has always slept from 7.30pm to 9.00am every night (one nap at 1.00 pm for 1 ½ hrs), but now she wakes frequently at night crying. When I don’t go in she stops after 10-15 minutes. When I go in to console her (or if I need to check she is okay), she goes ballistic when I leave. I now wake her at 8 am every morning, so she sleeps a total of about 13-14 hours daily.

For at least 6 weeks she refused most foods altogether, whether it was finger foods or food I tried to feed her. When visitors come over she becomes inconsolable and clingy, crying non-stop, even after a long period of settling in quietly.

I think the main problem occurred during her illness and lack of food - she is content when she gets enough to eat. Her refusal to eat after months of loving her food was very strange. I tried every fun finger food and different combination possible.

When I put her down at night she sometimes cries for 5-10 minutes before falling asleep, and I do not go in to comfort her. I wonder whether this crying down then and late at night when I don’t go in is having a negative effect on the separation anxiety, ie. her thinking that I don’t come when she cries. My older daughter never had any problems in respect of eating/drinking, however, Evie has never really liked her bottles. She has always insisted on drinking her milk whilst lying down (even as a newborn!) and only will drink from the bottle when I hold it when she is sitting in her highchair (even though it has handles). She will often attempt to hold it for a while then throw it away, so if I don’t hold the bottle she won’t drink it. She is a bit of a wilful little thing.
I am sure this is just a phase, but it is worrying and I Iook forward to your reply.
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My daughter was very good sleeper (7pm-8am) and enjoyed the routine until she had a very bad cold last month. She stopped eating solids during the day, waking up at night and taking up to 3 full 8 oz bottles. I don't know how to turn it around. I tried everything, cuddling, boiled water - nothing helps. She falls asleep only if she has had milk. If she does not have enough she will not settle or wakes up after an hour. My daughter used to love solids, it all has changed now. We are trying to encourage her to feed herself and she enjoys finger food. I am afraid it is not enough to make her sleep during the night. We do prepare fresh food following Gina’s recipes and she used to love all of them.

My daughter feeds at 8.30am 6ozs, porridge, which she sometimes refuses after her 8oz bottle at 5am. 12.30pm Protein based meal which she now refuses to eat. Finger food, cheese and bread. 4-6ozs water. 2.30pm 8ozs formula. 5pm Vegetables and pudding, she refuses to eat both. 5.30pm 6ozs, 10.30pm 8ozs, 1.30am 7ozs, 5.30am 7ozs. She weighs 10kg [22lbs]

My daughter naps at 1-2pm and settles at 7pm.
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My son is now 10 months old and has always been a very happy boy. We have followed the routines laid out by Gina since birth and this has resulted in him sleeping through the night from about 4 months and he has continued to sleep well, not waking until 7. 30 am. The slight concern I now have is that he only seems to want to eat one thing! I have always prepared his meals myself, introducing a wide variety of vegetables and fruit and then chicken, red meat and fish. In the last couple of weeks he only seems to be interested in meals made from fish and vegetables in a white or cheese sauce and has totally lost interest in any other meals I prepare! He wakes at 7.30 having slept all night and has a good breakfast of one Weetabix or Ready Brek with mashed banana and apricot followed by toast fingers and sometimes with a drink of water. He no longer wants any milk to drink in the morning so about 5ozs goes on his cereal. He then has a short nap at 0915 until 1000 and then lunch normally starts at about 1130. He normally has a bit of a rage when I first try and feed him but then eats well as long as it's fish! He will then be given some rice pudding or fruit fool or yoghurt and some fruit pieces to eat, followed by his longer nap, which is usually about one and a half hours. My son no longer wants any milk at 2.30pm so he may have breadstick or some fruit in the afternoon if he seems to want a snack. Tea is at 5pm which again starts with rage and then he eats well, he has about 6 cubes of fish followed by a milk pudding and then some fruit and cheese pieces. His last bottle at 6.15pm has reduced now; he is only having about 4ozs at this time. He then settles well and sleeps all night, never waking. I continually try and offer my son other meals at mealtimes but it is very clear that he is not interested so there seems little point sitting there for ages when it is apparent that he is not going to eat it. He used to enjoy all the meals I prepared for him, is the fact that he is now becoming more resistant something to worry about and how can I re-introduce him to different foods again?

My son takes 2ozs of water at breakfast, 2-4ozs with his lunch and 2-4ozs at tea.

He naps at 9.15-10am, 12.30-2.00pm and is settled by 7pm.
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I know I seem to be so obsessed about this issue, but I'd like to find out how much protein a baby should take daily. I am getting a bit confused, because suggested amounts vary significantly between different sources. For example, Gina suggests 50 g meat a day to meet a 9-12-month-old baby's daily protein needs in The Contented Little Baby Book of Weaning (p102), but in The Contented Child's Food Bible it says babies between 7 mths and 3 yrs should take 5 portions (each 3 g) of protein, milk included. So, total daily amount is 15 g, and if baby takes 200 ml of milk, which is said to provide 6-7 g protein, then they should take another 8-9 g from other sources: meat, yogurt, lentil etc.

50 g meat, such as lamb, contains approximately 12 g protein. If you give that for lunch, the daily amount according to Food Bible will be exceeded even without giving any cheese, egg, pulses, yogurt, etc. And other books and websites suggest different amounts again.

So, I am really confused, since excess amount of proteins may potentially be harmful for a baby's little kidneys, but insufficient protein intake may adversely affect mental development. What amount of protein (in grams) should a baby take daily (between 9 to 12 months)?
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Hannah has been at nursery for four weeks now and predictably has been ill most of that time with a persistent cold and now a cough and sore throat. She is just over one but I haven't yet made the switch from formula to cows' milk, although she does have it in cooking and on cereal. Is it best to delay introducing cows' milk to drink until she is better? Is it a problem that she continues with formula for a bit longer?

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Angela is over twelve months but I am still scared to give her honey. What makes it not safe one day and safe the next, i.e. the day before they turn one, to the next day? Angela is small, just 18.5lbs – is the safety issue weight-dependant or am I being crazy?

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My ten-month-old baby daughter has developed lactose intolerance after a bout of severe gastro. She has been given a lactose-free formula and I have been advised to keep her off dairy products for a few weeks. Is there anything I can give her yoghurt-wise that would be ok? A friend of mine mentioned fromage frais but I am not sure if that is all right. What about soy yoghurt?

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My nine month old baby boy will be starting nursery next month and tea is served very early at about 3.30pm. He has a really healthy appetite and I am concerned that such an early tea, with nothing other than a milk feed at bedtime, might cause him to wake up earlier in the morning. Can you please advise whether I should give him another meal when he gets home at 5.30pm, or just a snack?

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My question is about how much water should a baby of 10 months drink? Thanks to your guidelines I am aware that a baby between 9-12 months should drink a minimum of 350 ml milk a day and my twins, drink around 300-350 ml everyday plus 2 cups of yogurt and some cheese, so I'm not worried about the calcium intake but I\m worried that they must be dehydrated. I offer them water after every meal and in the afternoon in a trainer bottle but they are not very interested. So my question is other than the milk they drink, is there a quota for water that I should meet everyday such as 50 ml or 100 ml, or etc?
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My son is waking most evenings and will not settle without a milk feed around 12.30 am most nights. I try to feed him more during the day but he refuses to be spoon fed after about 8 baby spoonfuls. He tends to throw any finger foods on to the floor. Lunch time is not much of an issue but tea time is. Breakfast is also a struggle to get him to eat. He is an extremely active boy which has also been noted by the Health Visitor and was walking at 9 months. I started to give him milk when he woke as I was afraid he was not eating much in the day but I'm feeling that by doing this we are getting into a vicious circle. I give him a spoon to feed himself but the food ends up in his eyes etc and he finds it fun. The list below is an approximate day. I have to wake him at all his sleeps to keep the routine on track, I have to feed him lunch at 11.00 am so I am able to pick up my toddler on time from playgroup. My son is ready for his lunch sleep at 12.15 and I have no problems getting him to sleep at all he just goes straight down in his cot without any fuss the majority of the time.

He takes 4-6ozs formula at 7.30am. Yoghurt is eaten, toast offered and played with and he sometimes takes about 5 teaspoons of cereal. He takes a drink of water at 10am. At 11am he will eat 8 baby spoons of home made spaghetti bolognaise, some yoghurt and a bread stick He has 4ozs of formula at 2.30pm and his tea at 4.30pm is a mixture of finger foods and scrambled egg on toast. He takes water wit h this meal and 7ozs of formula before his bedtime at 7pm.

He naps at 9.30-10am and 12.15-2.15pm.
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